ForeverWaltons... :(

[ForeverWaltons]

It is pure coincidence that when I came back to start posting again, Scarlett had deleted her posts & seems to have left the forum.  In no way, shape or form did I ever want her to do that. She has been a member on this forum for years. I know that she has to be on an emotional rollercoaster right now & I hope time will help her sort out all of her feelings about being adopted.

Scarlett, if you happen to read this - I truly am sorry about the misunderstanding on your thread. I did not mean to upset you. As an adoptive parent I was honestly trying to reach out to you. I hope there is not any hard feelings among any of the other forum members pertaining to this situation. I believe that Scarlett has decided to go pursue answers for her questions & no one here (Roger or myself) is to blame for her deciding to do that. She has taken the first steps on her journey & I want her to be able to have success in that journey. Scarlett I hope you decide to come back & rejoin the forum when you're ready.

[daniela]

I wish Scarlett the best as well. I will miss her, and hope she returns. She has a lot on her mind, and starting a journey that has so many mixed feelings and emotions. I also know Foreverwaltons would never do or say anything to hurt anyone on purpose.

Scarlett...I wish you all the best in your quest to find your birth family. I know you were upset on your last post about your search. I hope your luck will get better soon. I can't even imagine what it would feel like to look for someone and want to meet them so badly, and it may or may not happen. I hope you come back and let us know that you are ok. Take care Scarlett, hope to see you on here again soon.

[PLP927]

Jul 23, 2013 14:17:30 GMT -5 Marilyn said:

Did she say she left because of Roger's remark or is that just a shot in the dark? In any case, we all need to chill out more and not react to things we read here. Sometimes we're not feeling well or just having a bad day for one reason or another and we take what we read in the wrong way. It's best to sit and think about something before we respond or make a hasty decision.

I had a lot to say on the subject of adoption as I, myself, am an adoptee. 


And to simply say, I love that I am. 

So yes, Marilyn, I agree 100% sometimes we just need to think before "typing".

Wow, I don't know why I typed 'abortion'! 

[ForeverWaltons]

Jul 24, 2013 11:48:43 GMT -5 PLP927 said:

Jul 23, 2013 14:17:30 GMT -5 Marilyn said:

Did she say she left because of Roger's remark or is that just a shot in the dark? In any case, we all need to chill out more and not react to things we read here. Sometimes we're not feeling well or just having a bad day for one reason or another and we take what we read in the wrong way. It's best to sit and think about something before we respond or make a hasty decision.

I had a lot to say on the subject of adoption as I, myself, am an adoptee. 


And to simply say, I love that I am. 

So yes, Marilyn, I agree 100% sometimes we just need to think before "typing".

Wow, I don't know why I typed 'abortion'! 

PLP927 - So happy to hear that you love that you are an adoptee. I pray that my children will feel the same.

[PLP927]

Jul 26, 2013 11:27:04 GMT -5 ForeverWaltons said:

You're very sweet!! I am so unbelievably thankful for people like you who open their homes and hearts for children in need of a good and loving home!      You're truly a blessing!

And praying for Scarlett that she may find peace and comfort in her search as well as with her adopted family.

[Honeybee]

Looks like Scarlett O'Hara account been delete it. I don't see her post anymore. Her name is in black, instead of blue. I looked at the members section. I search her name. Their was no name of Scarlett. I even look at the S's name in member. Their was no Scarlett O'Hara.