I think this was discussed before and I responded saying that my favorite was Jane ( the person he dated while in New York). She was more focused on what he needed. I really admired her when she told Jason to take him home so he could get himself together. She was willing to sacrifice her feelings for him. Ive always admired her for that. Though they at some point broke up, I believe her setting him free led to him finding his true place. I commend women and men who do that because it’s not necessarily easy. Selfless love is the best form of true love.